Navigating the Change is a website designed and launched by KE Garland.Continue reading “Navigating the Change essay contest: body positivity”
Last two paragraphs of part 2, the Botox dilemma:Continue reading “Midlife and cosmetics: the Botox dilemma continued (part 3)”
Yesterday I heard the term she-session for the first time. So I searched up the term and discovered a number of explanations dating back to 2020.
I’m irked.Continue reading “Economic gender divide”
Remember this post where I admitted my struggle to shape my eyebrows since my teen years? I left a little cliffhanger at the end, where my beautician Eva uttered a single word. 😛
Here are the final few paragraphs of that post, and the continuation of what happened next.
One day well into my late 40s, I asked Eva what she can recommend to hide some irksome wrinkles between my brows. Was there a type of make-up I could use that would minimize this self-perceived flaw that had bothered me for as long as I had been plucking my own eyebrows? That’s a lot of years of constant zooming in on that one point in my face. The wrinkles resembled a scar (I don’t even know if it is a scar, or if it is, how I got it) and I became increasingly self-conscious about it as I aged.
In fact, this scar/wrinkle was, at one time, the reason I desired bangs. (Never ever again.)
Eva had me lie back on her table and inspected my upper face under a bright light with a magnifying mirror.
Then, she said one word:Continue reading “Midlife and cosmetics: the Botox dilemma (part 2)”
Something has been percolating in my brain for a while, but I couldn’t find the words to talk about it on a public forum until today. Perhaps I will find the words if I simply type them into the keyboard.
It began with a syndicated episode of The Big Bang Theory. I see the scene in front of me but I can’t find it when I google it. It’s not so much the scene that made an impression anyway, it’s the phrase.
This is how I remember it (paraphrased):Continue reading “Old and ugly”
Disclaimer: this is a straight-forward, blunt, personal perspective about women and periods. If you’re squeamish about these things I encourage you to get over it and read it anyway. Looking forward to respectful and thoughtful, contributing comments. Let’s talk about this and take away the stigma of menstruation.
Ladies, do you remember the circumstances of your first period?
What about you men, do you remember when your sisters started…? Or your daughters?
I don’t remember much, other than the usual sentiments of discomfort, anxiety about leaks, and how unfair it was to have to go through this crap for the next 40+ years.
Everything is temporary.
A wise person said this once but it escapes me now where I read it.
It’s true though, don’t you think? Be it euphoric joy or debilitating depression, we pass through these sets of emotions and emerge with a fresh perspective. Maybe a new outlook. Definitely with accumulated life experience.
It’s the latter that defines us, characterizes us as the individuals we are today.
Life experience. Continue reading “Emotional ebb and flow of life”
Disclaimer: I understand that many/most people have bigger fish to fry while the world is falling apart than to sit and contemplate this vanity-induced post here, so if you do comment, please be kind (but still honest) – I have no qualms blocking anyone if you attack or put down someone’s opinion on my blog.
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Once upon a time when I was young and stupid, I dated some people I shouldn’t have.
Recently, I reflected on some comments one of them made, that have me irked. (sorry not sorry)
Here’s one that surfaced today: Continue reading “Letting (her/yourself) go”
This morning started with a bang.
I have been good with the low carb thing since Monday.
That’s a lie. Monday was a holiday and we were at the Autoshow and I had to eat greasy pizza for lunch. Continue reading “Carby excuses”
Disclaimer: if you shop, and like to shop, and can afford to shop at this store, and happen to be of GenX age, by all means, all the power to you. I am describing an experience I had personally and mean no offense to any snowflakes. Proceed with caution. Trolls, negativity, insults or attacks will be deleted and blocked.
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Two weeks ago I ventured into a Victoria’s Secret for the first time in at least 25 years. Continue reading “The GenX experience at Victoria Secret”
I have been out of sorts this week.
Go ahead, roll your eyes. I know what you’re thinking:
I did something dumb yesterday. Continue reading “Sweet stupidity”